A common country story: how my neighbors shake my nerves and don't let me rest

Neighbors can be roughly divided into three categories: good, bad, and neutral. Logically, it's good to live with the good, but with the bad, well, you yourself understand... FORUMHOUSE under the nickname ga102 we got very nasty neighbors. Read what is happening in the country house of our hero and suggest how you can resolve the conflict.

The origins of the conflict

Good afternoon! I share my story and ask for advice. I have neighbors in IZHS and they do not give me rest. Due to the fact that they have been living here for 5 years, and I only bought a house half a year ago, the neighbors are constantly shaking their nerves for any reason and even without them. It seems to me that they consider themselves old-timers of the area, and this allegedly gives them the right to look out and sniff out everything that we do on our site.

How we live

We are not breaking anything. We have everything built according to all conceivable and inconceivable norms and rules. We do not make noisy work, do not burn tires, do not dispose of garbage right in the yard. We do not have grunting, crowing or mooing animals. Our dog does not attack people.

And also we never make noise, we don't gather companies with friends and music, we don't arrange violent parties, we don't drink, we don't take drugs, we don't rent rooms to guest workers. We have a small child and we have an ordinary law-abiding life.

About neighbors

Neighbors - two women: one near retirement age, the second - about seventy years old. All day long they have nothing to do, apparently, the absence of a man affects the same. For them, we are like a huge unearthly entertainment, like a visiting theater on weekends. Apparently, our arrival at the dacha is an important event for them.

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Well, that is, there is a category of people who do not like everything. They do not like that we have come to the dacha again. Sometimes it seems to me that they do not like the fact that we breathe the same air. Once, trash and scattered tomatoes were found on the site.

I lost my nerves

As a result, there is no rest, any arrival at the dacha is accompanied by increased nervous tension. The neighbors constantly look in our direction, make condemning evil grimaces, constantly grumble, make unfounded claims, give absurd advice. That is, it is impossible to go out into the yard and calmly breathe the air.

On the first, we tried to talk in a civilized way, so to speak, not quarreling with neighbors. But finally realizing that they are inadequate (there are no constructive claims), the last time I broke loose and swore at them. Of course, without threats, just making it clear that they are only doing, as they are looking for a reason to wind their nerves.

One of them seemed to be in shock from non-literary speech. Probably, I didn't expect such a reaction and just left. There is a feeling that they are doing this out of envy, since in six months we have completely equipped the dacha. How to calm down such neighbors? Help with advice.

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