I'm 40, I met a girl of 25. She spoke about her requirements for adult men, and I realized that we were not on the way
I like people who know exactly what they want out of life. But sometimes you just can't put their requests on your head - it happened with my new friend, 25 years old.
She turned out to be quite sweet and smart at first glance, and therefore I, a forty-year-old man, invited her on a date. There she explained to me that there must be a man of my age who has views on her.
Your own separate own apartment
Oddly enough, the question of real estate was almost the first when we met in a cafe. Only now I understand that this is a kind of casting for men in order to determine whether it is possible to meet with them or not.
It turned out that, according to her, a man must have his own apartment by the age of 40! Do not rent, do not be an heir, do not pay a mortgage for it, but already have it in your personal property!
I suddenly blurted out that I had not yet achieved this, I looked - and the light in her eyes immediately faded away. And to fill the awkward silence, she continued, as if on an automatic machine, to talk about her further requirements for adult men.
Auto
I will say right away that we are not talking about a simple car that is available to literally every man, if he is not an inveterate lazy person and an alcoholic. The car must definitely emphasize the status of its owner.
That is - if you have already allowed yourself an apartment, then it should be visible on your car. And here we smoothly move on to the third point. In general, it is better to consider and accept them, in her words, all at once and together.
Prestigious job
A 40-year-old man must have a stable, highly paid and prestigious job. Do you feel how many requirements there are for just one job? Of course, this position was supposed to allow the first two items: a car and an apartment.
And what about a simple worker then? Loaders, for example. Not only can you not buy an apartment and a good car in 20 years, but also the work is not prestigious, you see. So now what, do they not communicate with women at all?
A man should support a woman
This was the last nail in the coffin of our relationship with her. She is convinced that a grown man should pay his woman her expenses. Not his lawful wife, not his common-law wife - but the woman with whom he just wants to get to know better!
Like, he should understand that the attention of beautiful girls costs a little more than usual, and you can't get by with chocolate.
Of course, I understand when a husband plows three jobs to feed his children and his legal wife. But to give the average monthly salary in the country, or even more, to a person you barely know... Sorry.
In general, I said to my failed passion about the following after she finished: “I can buy myself a woman cheaper. As for true love, it has nothing to do with cash. " After these words, I left the date.
And I didn't care that I had an apartment, a business class car and a steadily developing company. Adult women are more adequate, in my opinion.