"Toxic" phrases from a man - if I hear them, then I immediately end the relationship, I will never tolerate this in my 52
A man's inclinations can be easily identified by the phrases he uses most often. After all, the favorite word is no, no, and it will pop up at some point.
And you cannot hide it from others, you cannot disguise it in any way - the habit of expressing in a certain way manifests itself no worse than an awl from a sack.
But for me this is also the surest way to find out if a man is right for me or not. Hearing the following phrases from any boyfriend, I immediately end all relationships with him and delete him from my life.
"Do not meddle in my affairs"
This expression is typical of men who are on their own mind. In other words, they draw the line between their life and yours - and will never let you get closer.
If you dream of a man with whom you will share all the joys and hardships, then this is clearly not your option.
Although, it is quite possible that he is quite capable of sharing troubles, and even completely blaming them on you. And what promises him any benefit will never become your property.
"Don't worry my brain"
This popular phrase has quite a few variations, but their essence boils down to the same thing - a man does not hesitate to show that you are getting on his nerves. Agree that it is difficult to hear more rudeness from a person whom you consider your soul mate.
Such a man will quit at any moment, as soon as you bore him, and he is not at all capable of any sacrifice in the name of love. And therefore he will not have a single chance to continue the relationship with me.
"It's all your fault"
This type of man will always find a scapegoat for his sins. Well, or a goat - I don't even know how to put it right here in order to remain as correct as possible.
He will blame you at the first opportunity, and he will remain white and fluffy. And it will always be so. Because a person is not able to realize his responsibility for everything that happens to him.
And if you are ready to shoulder the entire burden of his mistakes, then, in principle, you can continue to communicate with him. But for me, a relationship with a man who at least once expressed himself in this way is deprived of the future.
"Dura"
This "common name" also has many sound options. And do not write off this phrase on his violent emotions or bad mood. Direct insults should never be tolerated!
A man who at least once called you an offensive word can pin the most disgusting label on you. And there will never be an excuse for that. Better to end the relationship with him at the same minute.
"You are as always"
It is extremely rare that this phrase means human admiration. This is often said to highlight someone's constant mistakes and failures. And in this context, it means that the man expects this behavior from you.
I will not say that this is an extreme version of the manifestation of negativity. But from experience I know that with these words a completely different stage of the relationship between a man and a woman begins - and it is better to end them right now.