How can a woman understand that a man doesn't really love her?
Often women are perplexed - why relationships look great on the outside or outside, but in fact they do not feel love from a man.
The partner is closed for confidential conversations, exchanges of tender feelings and secret thoughts, you cannot discuss too personal issues with him. And in general there is some kind of feeling of emotional dissatisfaction.
Women are always ready to support a loved one, but men sometimes just enjoy such a warm attitude. Falling in love without reciprocity, a woman will fall into a trap, from which she will come out with disappointment and heartache.
In order not to suffer again and again, it is better to immediately realize that the chosen one simply does not have sincere and deep feelings for you. Perhaps he has sympathy or even a mercantile interest. But it certainly isn't true love.
An indifferent man will not often write messages in the messenger, sending funny emoticons and memes and trying to cheer you up, cheer you up.
He will not often call out on dates unless physical intimacy is expected. He will not call often, because only a loving person cannot live without the voice of his beloved.
An indifferent man doesn't show proper care - he doesn't care if you ate on time. whether your body is dressed in cold weather, are you tired after work. If he is interested in such things, then his phrases look more "on duty" than sincere.
Such a man does not try to help. Even if you told him about your difficulties, he will either pretend not to hear or promise to help, but “merge”, coming up with a reason.
He will never say directly that he loves - not because he is modest, or considers tenderness to be something not masculine, but because he does not experience deep feelings.
Sometimes the chosen one, on the contrary, repeats too much about love, but in words everything ends - in deeds he does not show his feelings
The partner is not in the mood for a serious relationship when he does not consider it necessary to devote the woman to his plans.
She will never share fears or grievances, does not like communication at a close, trusting level.
In conversations about the future, the word "we" does not appear. A man will not say "we will buy a house in two years", he always says "I intend to buy a house in a couple of years."
The woman is constantly adjusting to his plans. A man meets when he has "windows" between important things.
He does not introduce his partner to friends and family as a "bride" or "beloved woman."
In a relationship, a woman is more likely to do nice things for him than vice versa.
The man does not show a sincere interest in the affairs and activities of the woman.
He doesn't want to talk about what will happen in a year or two.
Of course, the partner may just be shy. In this case, he will "slow down" a little and in normal communication with people, for example, show shyness with the boss, or new acquaintances. If this is not the case, then the man is not shy, but indifferent.
When you really like a man, you can try to challenge him to be frank by asking directly about his plans.
In the case when he does not want to answer, or turns the conversation to something else, he is not really in love. Then the woman must decide for herself whether she needs such a quality relationship.
It is better to take off your rose-colored glasses and not cherish hopes with someone who does not want to build a beautiful and lasting relationship.