6 signs that you are a "fallback" for a man and he has no serious intentions

At the initial stage of a relationship, it is often difficult to evaluate certain reactions and actions of a new partner in order to draw conclusions about his intentions.

Often, at first, a woman does not know whether a man is serious or not. This won't be a problem if the lady is also not looking for a relationship with the prospect. But this is rare. Usually women, entering into a relationship, always expect that everything will end in a marriage union.

Therefore, any woman wants to understand as soon as possible whether her chosen one is really interested in strong partnership at an early stage, or is it just a fallback for him, entertainment on time.

Psychologists identify 6 subtle signs by which a woman can determine whether they will have a long relationship.

1. All for the sake of intimacy

In any relationship, physical attraction and closeness play an important role. However, in relation to this issue, one can understand whether a man really takes a woman seriously.

For all the love and passion, physical contact should not dominate a relationship for a long time. If a woman feels that her partner is pushing her, pressing, bending and not respecting desires and feelings enough, this, rather, indicates a lack of serious interest on his part.

2. He shies away from any activity that could help him bond with a woman.

The man never has time to get to know the woman's parents, and at the last minute of a joint dinner wriggles in a conversation that his boss calls him in the evening.

He also does not leave many things in the woman's apartment, only necessary things, but when asked: “Can you come to me will you move? " the man replies as if a learned phrase: “Not now, I have a lot of problems, how I can figure it out and immediately ”.

All these are signs that he has no serious intentions.

3. He says he was never in love

This type of man is cunning. Many women are especially attracted to men who seem vulnerable and say they have never been in love. Such women make this man their personal "love project".

They think that he just hasn't met the right one yet - and they immediately put themselves forward for this role. So the risk is high that he will end the relationship if she wants something serious.

Therefore, women are better off choosing not to date a man who is over 40 years old and who says that he has never been in love before.

4. He only calls when he needs something

He doesn't just call, to find out how you are, what you were doing today, how was your day. Usually his calls are always some kind of request or suggestion.

Usually the main reason for calling is he wants or just craves intimacy. On weekdays, he does not call several times a day, and even if the conversation takes place, it is cold and fast.

And in general, he is rather passive in relation to women. But "under the degree" he can flirt, say amazing words and, of course, make excuses.

5. He has many friends

You notice that there are many women in his contacts. He often gets calls with female voices and he tells you that he just has a lot of girlfriends. Like, what's wrong with that.

Just because he is dating a constant companion does not mean that he cannot date other women as well. But from a certain point on, he clearly must stop flirting with other women, not to mention evening meetings in a restaurant under the pretext of a business meeting.

6. Lack of support

A woman also has a hard and exhausting workday, feeling unwell, or other problems. In this case, a man should show at least minimal compassion.

A repulsive sign will be a short phrase on the opposite side of the phone: “How do you manage your business, let me know ”- this suggests that a man is holding a woman as a backup option for intimate meetings character.

He does not intend to invest moral and financial resources in it. And she should think if this could be a man for love and life.

Logic and intuitive impulses in women are better developed than in men, so every lady, if she wants, will notice changes in the behavior of men.

The main thing is not to plunge into the love pool of relationships. Indeed, after such a disappointment, new novels will not be crowned with a richness of meetings and confidence in a new partner will not come soon.