Brother's wife left him because he could not buy an apartment after the wedding

My cousin got married yesterday. They decided not to have a wedding with the girl, but left for a week in the Crimea, in a sanatorium. But I want to tell the story of his first marriage, which became the talk of the town in our family. For greater effect, I will present it as if he himself was telling you this instructive incident. Gave him a preliminary reading, my brother said that he himself could not have expressed all the feelings better at that period.

Divorce

Well that's all, 15 minutes ago I became an unmarried, free person again. The divorce procedure took half an hour at most. To the indifferent question of the registry office worker about why we decided to divorce, my ex (already) wife replied with pathos: “He can't even provide a roof over his head, what a family can be!”. We were stamped in our passports, and we went our separate ways.

How it all began

There was no question of love at first sight between us. At first I did not like her very much for her nervousness, constant twitching and readiness for hysterics. But when I got used to it, it began to give her a certain zest, piquancy against the background of other women, some kind of boiled and uninteresting. And, noticing my interest, she became more restrained and softer. And when it came to intimacy, I realized that her hysteria and twitchy turns into a real hurricane! And "hooked" on sex like a drug addict.

My plans

None of us had a place to live. I rented a small apartment, and she lived in a hostel. My whole life before meeting her was devoted to earning money for my apartment. And the dream was about to come true. In a conversation with her, I constantly mentioned that a little more, and a spacious one-room apartment in a new building will be ours. She just smiled gently and put me into a trance again.

Send expenses

When it came to the wedding, my parents gave us a little money. But both me and her, the ancestors are not oligarchs at all, but ordinary people of average income. But she started a wedding, like a Hollywood star. I had to go to the show and a crowd of unfamiliar guests to take money from the amount intended for the purchase of an apartment.

Another surprise awaited me during the feast. It turns out that the honeymoon vouchers, presented, as if, by her parents, she herself bought with a credit card in order to show off in front of her girlfriends. Moreover, the trip was to Europe, so the price was appropriate. I had to pay off this loan too.

In the Czech Republic and Germany, by the way, she did not like it at all. She was not pleased with any historical sites, or beautiful castles, or interesting excursions. Famous places and surnames did not tell her anything. Then we had a fight the first time when I said that she was a stupid blonde who did not know who Strauss was.

The money from the account for the purchase of an apartment melted like April snow. My young wife, suddenly, did not have winter clothes, a smartphone and a laptop. Where all this disappeared in an instant, I did not understand at first. But soon they were found missing - something from her mother, and something from her younger sister.

Enough!

In the end, I, having changed my mind, decided to block this stream, flowing into nowhere. Constant spending robbed me of hard-earned housing.

I told my wife that I need to save money and work harder to buy an apartment. To which she, having rolled up a scandal, made a claim to me that I had promised her to buy a house before the wedding.

And when I gave her a list of expenses made for her, she realized that only half of the money remained. I was punished by excommunication. Although, at that time, two months after the wedding, she no longer turned me on as before. I myself was at a loss for what I found in it?

In short, our marriage lasted about three months, she herself decided to file for divorce.

Men, live according to your plans, don't be fools like me!