The man took out a mortgage and decided that now his girlfriend should provide for him

Selfish history. Only here who is more mercantile, judge.

Sergey got a temporary job with us when our driver Andrey fell ill, and at his job he went on vacation. In the team, the newcomer did not really take root. Everyone was waiting for Andrey's return and even postponed their trips, just not to tolerate the new one. And on one of my trips to the neighboring region, I understood my colleagues why they do not want to communicate with Sergei. We have a female team.

We drove to Kazan for about 2.5 hours. During this time we started talking a little. At first, only about work, bosses. And then I even asked Sergey's opinion about my colleagues. Like, does he want to stay with us to work on a permanent basis, if he made friends with the team? To which he answered me - no, he did not make friends and did not even look closely.

Trying to understand what the disagreements are, I tried to talk about personal things. I didn't have to stab him for long, it started almost immediately... Apparently, it boiled, and there was no one to speak.

Six months ago he took out a mortgage and is currently making repairs in this new building in order to call in to live. But since half of the salary goes to the mortgage, and the remaining funds go to the maximum for repairs, he has no money left for candy-bouquet relationships and courting girls.

But Sergei suddenly began to speak offendedly about the female half. Complain or something... When I asked why, I began, explaining, to describe my situation.

He lives while the apartment is being renovated in a rented apartment, which is paid for by his girlfriend. Well settled in, I will say. She does not pay for housing and speaks very negatively of her friend for requiring him to buy groceries. Well, as he demands, he asks politely, "Seryozha, when you go home from work, buy some bread with a loaf." Yes, that's exactly how he quoted her speech to me.

I was a little at a loss.

- And how can you be offended that she just asks you to buy bread with a loaf?

- Well, how! I already spend money on repairs and mortgages, but she can't buy bread!

- Wait, but she cooked the dinner herself, she only asks you to buy bread, or I misunderstood?

- Yes, but I have no money for bread. I would quickly call in a new apartment, I spend all the money on materials and repairs. On weekends, from morning to night, I repair and plow there. And she asks me for bread, as if she herself cannot buy!

- How long have you been together?

- Not really, about six months.

- So six months ago you took out a mortgage, do I remember correctly? You got an apartment for two?

- Nooo! Why should I register my apartment for her? I just had to urgently rent housing then, I sold the old one-room apartment to buy this two-room apartment. So she invited me to stay with her then.

- She offered you to live... and she also offered to provide for you? Maybe she also hoped that you would split the rent for two, but you do not pay, referring to the lack of money.

- No! I'm not asking to provide for me! What are you talking about!

- You are not asking, you are demanding. Because they don't take offense when they don't ask, they don't expect. They take offense when they consider what they expect to be a duty. She is your finger, and you are ready to gobble her up to the elbows. You don’t consider it necessary to share your kopecks, but should she spread her kopecks for two? So this issue is generally easy to solve. You register half of your apartment on it and pay for the mortgage. And she will feed you. Or have you never counted how much money is spent on food? I'm sure you eat as much as you pay for your mortgage a month. Everything will be equally divided. Then she, it seems to me, will not ask you to buy bread with a loaf.

- What kind of mercantile women you are ...

At this point, my interlocutor decided to end the conversation and close the topic. We drove home in silence. And after 3 months, I learned from Andrei that he celebrated a housewarming, and that he had not settled his girlfriend on his square meters. But at the beginning of their cohabitation, he introduced her to friends, like a wife.

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