Found a thing in which young people are smarter and more moral than people "35+"

People of middle and venerable years like to grumble about the "USE generation" in the spirit of "what the youth have sunk to." A I read the comments on the controversial post on the social network and was surprised how immoral and cruel most people in the 35+ category are, and how adequately the opinions of young people look against them.

Our small town has its own group on social networks. The other day the usual messages "Tell me which kindergarten is better", "Lost dog", "What m *** k put the car on the lawn + photo of the car" one woman wrote an out of the ordinary post.

The woman posted a photo of herself with severe bruises on her face and a photo of her roommate, accompanying the pictures with the inscription:

This is Yegor V... oev, we lived with him for 2 years, he began to raise his hand against me. It used to be rare, now it is permanent. I can't stand it anymore, I left and wrote a statement to the police. But he's following me. Let everyone know what he is capable of

Needless to say, the comments immediately began the usual (unfortunately!) Games for society, "Blame the victim, feel stronger and smarter". But now it's not even so much about them.

Not quite a young man, the hero of the occasion, reacted immediately:

Ungrateful, I took you with the child, and you write that. The very citizen of another country, and I was dragging you. I would be ashamed to write this !!!

The message clearly shows that:

1, A man initially considers himself a king of the home and puts himself on a step above his recent concubine. Or maybe even a whole flight of stairs. Why, he "took into the house" a citizen of another country, and even with a child. Weak and vulnerable, for which there is no one to stand up for. So, you can spread rot and dismiss your hands?

2. A man sincerely believes himself to be right.: in "gratitude for virtue" he allegedly has the right to educate with a fist and wonders how a woman dared to kick openly.

3. For a man (?) foreign concepts such as love and respect to the second half. Builds relationships according to the principle "I am stronger (in physical, material, legal, social terms), so I have the right to crush the weak. "

I was surprised how many "Classes" the defendant's answer collected. After all, he is not at all ashamed of his immoral and criminal act. YA then realized why: such behavior is actively approved by society.

Reading the comments of OK users (and most of them are people over 30), my hair stood on end:

And why is he so? Maybe she deserved it? - Curiously asks grandmother Galina, who has a photo with her granddaughter on her profile picture.

It is a pity that Galina, by her venerable years, did not understand a simple thing that is accessible to the entire civilized society: there is no such thing for which you can beat people (except for self-defense and sports competitions). Family misunderstandings (and even betrayal!) Are not a reason to arrange karate in an apartment.

I really hope that Galina's granddaughter will not have to find out in her practice what they "deserve" for and what they don't. Such a message would definitely put an end to my child's communication with the "wise grandmother".

Several messages at once - with the same message:

Whatever happens at home, you cannot endure quarrels in public! You must be ashamed! Such dirt - on people!

Oh, you EPT! It is because of this position, adopted by the majority of society, that such situations occur. Why should a woman be submissively silent? After all, the dirt here is only on the hands of the disrespected Yegor.

Sometimes it seems to me that such things are written by unhappy people. They silently endured in life "with a smile on their face, like everything is fine", and demand the same from others. So that they themselves are not so offended for their swallowed grievances.

There are few young people in OK. But their few comments on the scandalous post are like a breath of fresh air:

"Why should a woman be ashamed? Only this man should be ashamed "

"I really hope that you will not return to him, and he will receive a well-deserved punishment."

"A lonely woman with a child in her arms laid it all out because she was desperate. She told a story to get at least some help or support... But, apparently, here it is not expected. The author, if anything, will get you, write to me - the guys and I will talk to him

Do you feel the difference? Young people are moving away from medieval ideas about the submissive and silent "ideal" woman. She understands that domestic violence cannot be justified by Domostroi.

Hopefully more and more people will stop blaming the victims. And the "wise Galins" can continue to cover up the blacks with tonal, the very next day after the fight, washing the socks of their wild love as a token of gratitude.