I'm 49 - I'll tell you what kind of woman I dream about, but I haven't met one yet
Some people find it difficult to explain how they see their love. For them, this is some kind of secret, a gift of fate hidden behind the veil of the future.
And I know exactly what kind of woman I need. And I am sure that I will have an ideal relationship with her. And such a woman I will literally idolize.
I don't need a completely young woman, we will have nothing in common with her. For me, an attractive woman is 35-45 years old.
But I'll start with the fact that I am not interested in women who stop developing as a person with age. And this often happens with ladies 40+. In my opinion, this is the biggest minus of any person with whom it is impossible to put up.
And only with a woman who constantly works on herself, you can build a good relationship. Moreover, they can also be continuously developed and improved. And somehow I simply cannot imagine the way to mutual understanding between people.
Also, a woman should be free. And here it should be understood that children in no way add a person's personal time and space in decisions. Unless, of course, they are adults and independent.
I have nothing against children and I love them very much, but I don't want to raise them again. It's just that a woman who can devote more time to herself will in any case be more attractive to any man.
And the one who takes care of the children may even forget about herself if she is a good mother. And then what to say about a man? He may generally be without female attention. But why then live with such a woman? Just to raise other people's children? I don't agree to that.
Recently, there has been another trend in relationships that I do not approve of: women treat men like some kind of jinn who must fulfill their wishes.
I do not mind surprising my woman with an unexpected pleasant surprise, to please her from the bottom of my heart - to the best of my ability, of course. But when this happens under the slogan "you must" - then excuse me, this is not for me. The less you ask, the more you get. Pushkin mentioned this in his "Tale of the Fisherman and the Fish".
Also, my ideal woman should be kind. So that in her this trait was not because it is so necessary, that someone taught this once, but it came from her heart. To be sincere kindness. But often it seems to me that this is the rarest thing that occurs in a woman's heart.
Feminism is in fashion now, but how do the overwhelming majority see it? I would call it not equalization of rights, but humiliation of men. When a woman inserts her “I” both where it is needed and where it is not needed. When she does not compromise, but basically defends her position on any issue.
And a kind woman can always give in. And for that, I will truly love her. And I will always go to meet her.
I do not think that I expect the impossible from life - to meet such a woman. It seems to me that somewhere she is, it just so happens that I have not found her yet. To be interesting, free, open to new impressions and knowledge and still kind - is it really that much?