5 signs of low self-esteem in a woman that she herself does not notice

The biggest problem with a woman's low self-esteem is that she is not always noticed. But it is this character trait that prevents one from realizing oneself, does not give a chance for happiness.

A woman simply does not understand that she deserves more from life than she has. But you can fight this - and first you should pay attention to the following signs characteristic of low self-esteem.

Constant guilt

A woman with low self-esteem feels guilty for all the troubles that happen to her and to others. She thinks that all other people are better than her and simply cannot make a mistake, and therefore only she can be wrong.

Accordingly, she is also the cause of all troubles and misfortunes. And this has very sad consequences: people around quickly understand who they can blame on someone and do it at the first opportunity.

The habit of suppressing desires

If a woman is not confident in herself, then she will try to suppress her desires. For her, this is a kind of punishment for shortcomings - since she is worse than others, then she has no right to desire the same as other people.

At first, desires are simply not spoken out loud. And then they are suppressed as soon as they arise. And this attitude of a woman towards herself eventually becomes a habit.

Inability to refuse

It is very difficult for a woman suffering from low self-esteem to say “no” to any request. After all, because of this, she will then be tormented by remorse - how can you refuse a person in trouble?

Even if it is to the detriment of their interests. Moreover, this feature also spreads to the sphere of relations with men.

An insecure woman resignedly accepts the courtship of any man, not daring to refuse him, because she is afraid that no one else will pay attention to her. And as a result, she does not have the opportunity to be happy in her personal life, because it is not she who chooses, but her.

Imitation of idols

When a woman does not rely on her sense of taste, is not sure of her positive qualities that make her personality unique, she begins to imitate other women.

It’s easier and safer to “write off” someone's obviously successful image. And she does not even suspect that she is losing her individuality.

Dependence on someone else's opinion

We were all taught as children to speak less and listen more. But if a woman has a problem with low self-esteem, then as an adult, she will also listen more to others than to herself.

And then there are problems with decision-making - in any situation there is a need first to consult with someone, get approval, and only then do something.

But it is no longer possible to deal with the problem on your own, which only confirms and consolidates the status of a failure.

Don't underestimate yourself. After all, this is the same as deny yourself happiness, voluntarily giving it to others to your detriment.